the best way. not to deal with any of the problems is not do do the things that lead to them...
the thing is...u do what u want to...if its what u wanted..then there should be no reason u should not be able to deal with the bad that comes from it...
if i chose to drink u know..this can come from it..
so its ez to know.. if you don't want that... don't drink...
then u may say well i like drinking...
then i say u must also like the bad that comes with it... if no its pointless to say u like drinking....
like driving.. yes u could crash...but u take that risk to get place faster...
so by this u should not be unset when the bad comes from any thing u do..
because u picked it...